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Process is the truth | The only way to win

The process is the only constant and is the ultimate truth!

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The process is the only truth.

You wake up, set a goal, and work towards your goals in the hope of achieving your goals someday. Achieving the goal in graphical terms is a spike in perceived confidence, happiness, and status in our society.

But experiencing that spike is a myth unless

  • You go through the process

  • You enjoy every bit of the process

  • You fail along the way.

The process is the only constant and is the ultimate truth!

You can decide to wake up and execute, you can decide to go through the process - You control it

The process is uncertain in outcomes but it is certain in choice

The process makes you a better person every day if you respect it and go through it with focus, determination, and discipline. The process always gives back!

There is no luck involved in the process - It’s just your discipline and the work you put in.

The internal change you experience is the proof that the process works. The effectiveness of the process must be measured with internal change produced not the external goals achieved.

You become eligible to achieve your goals, and experience that spike in the game of life only when you dedicate yourself to the process with honesty!

  • You don’t make money because you don’t do anything to deserve it

  • You can’t find a hot girl/guy because you don’t work on yourself

  • You are not in shape because you don’t put in effort to get in good shape

Often people run behind these things like a mad dog and mad dogs never get anywhere!

For anything you want to achieve you have to go through a long, boring, sometimes miserable process.

I got lost in the process and it changed my life.

Here is a short story:

After idolizing creators and dreaming of becoming a creator for months

I sat down to record my first video on 10th January 2020

It took me 200 takes to record a 2-minute video that day

  • I was anxious

  • Awkward, and

  • Sweaty after 200 takes

For the next 2 years, I only got 9000 followers after posting 600 videos

and then I got 170k followers from the next 150 videos

Because quitting was not an option for me, I didn’t believe in quitting!

The process taught me :

  • How to use cameras

  • How to set scenes

  • How to edit audio

  • How to edit videos

  • How to script that gets views

  • How to sell from videos

  • How to build trust

  • How to speak with confidence

Life changed because I never gave up on myself

The process is the magic!

Numbers are just a consequence of thriving in the magic!

-Akshat Tongia